Because if you're gonna blame people for all the sh*t You better blame them for all the good too. If you're gonna give them credit for everything that's f*ucked up, Then you have to give them credit for everything that's great. 'Cause life is not so simple and black and white. My mother beat the sh*t out of me. She loved me. She was freaked out I was going to leave. I was her source of everything. I blame her for all the beauty in my life. I blame her that I have the woman I have in my life, Because I cherish my wife Because I know what the opposite is. I blame her for the capacity to feel and care. I blame her for my insatiable hunger to end suffering for any human I can. 'Cause I suffered a ton. If she had been the mother I had wanted, I would not be the man I am proud to be. If we can realize that life is always happening for us, not to us, game over. All the pain and suffering disappears.